How to talk consent with young adults parent toolkit. Oct 25, 2017 it was a short video that compared sexual consent to a cup of tea. Consent may have been given last week but not today. The makers of the viral tea consent video have a new. Though a wellwritten book, a cup of tea reads much like a melodrama one finds in a harlequin or mills and boon romance novel. Up next coffee consent the other half of the consent argument duration. This sexual consent instructional video is everyones. No way would the people act the way they do, in that era, in that socioeconomic class that they do in this book. The video was also tweeted by harry potter author jk rowling to her millions of followers. Unconscious people dont want tea and cant answer the question do you want tea because they are unconscious.
Jun 28, 2005 but a cup of tea was barely worth the ninetynine cents. The voiceover invites anyone unsure about consent to draw a comparison with drinking tea. A mother and daughter team create a video that teaches kids what consent means. But not the kind of succour a man discreetly offers her as he walks by. It is then, in a moment of beneficence, that rosemary invites eleanor smith into her home for a cup of tea. This is from the creator of the wonderful tea guide to consent meme, where consent to sex is made much easier to understand by thinking of it as offering a cup of tea instead. This sexual consent instructional video is everyones cup of tea by kasia anderson on may 26, 2015 so, how do you like your tea nudge nudge, wink wink. If you say, hey, would you like a cup of tea and theyre like you know, im not really sure then you can make them a cup of tea or not, but be aware that they might not drink it and if they dont drink it. Spoiler alert i picked this book up this morning while drinking my own cup of tea and didnt put it down until it was finished. This video used by the thames valley police breaks down the concept of consent and applies it to real world situations. Nov 16, 2015 the video says that those struggling to understand sexual consent might imagine that, instead of initiating sex, theyre offering to make someone a cup of tea. This is an author that ive put off trying mainly because most of the blurbs for his books. Brian also is known for an earlier viral sensation, the video tea consent, based on a post by british blogger emmeline may, who used brewing a cup of tea as a metaphor for sex. No means no is one way to go, but never before has consent been tackled with such elegant and funny simplicity than in this video that uses offering someone a cup of tea as a premise.
She has wealth, wellconnected friends, and a handsome fiance, philip alsop. In her book, though, brian takes it one step further and explores the. A must accept the fact that b has said no, but looks displeased 6. Etsy is the home to thousands of handmade, vintage, and oneofakind products and gifts related to your search. While some analogies can make a complex issue seem overly simple, any opportunity to start the conversation is better than no conversation at all. The original cup of tea video provides a simplified description of sexual consent for teenagers. A illclothed young woman shudders against a street light, hoping for succour.
The independent consent is as simple as a cup of tea facebook. This 2015 video released by british police attempts to explain sexual consent using a cup of tea as an analogy for sex. How sexual consent is much like offering a cup of tea. Jun, 2016 tea and consent video this video brilliantly explains sexual consent with a simple cup of tea analogy. This humorous and insightful book from the cocreator of the viral tea consent video is the perfect teaching tool, conversation starter, and. The makers of the viral tea consent video have a new book. This video shows why consent should never be confusing.
First of all, its clearly a novel set in 2015, pretending to be set in world war 1. Rape happens to people of all genders and sexualities. A cup of tea by amy ephron meet your next favorite book. Mar 05, 2020 brian also is known for an earlier viral sensation, the video tea consent, based on a post by british blogger emmeline may, who used brewing a cup of tea as a metaphor for sex. This sexual consent instructional video is everyone. How to start teaching consent to kids sex ed rescue. Get your team aligned with all the tools you need on one secure, reliable video. Copyright 2015 emmeline may and blue seat studios noncommercial use. However, you can watch the sex consent videos explanation below, for full detail. If you are drunk but are still able to say yes to a cup of tea, you shouldnt be able to charge someone for giving you the tea. Oct 11, 2016 the video, an internet sensation created by brian and emmeline may, probes the issue of consent by equating it to offering someone a cup of tea. The very british video helping americans understand sexual. The drama begins on a nighttime street in manhattan in january 1917. This is a version for children which covers consent, boundaries, and bodily autonomy, abuse, grooming and bullying, in a gentle and easy to understand way.
This is tea consent clean by the scholars academy on vimeo, the home for high quality videos and the people who love them. Character a asks character b if they want tea, b says no 5. Zhena muzyka reflects on her complex and inspirational life by artfully weaving savory tea antidotes, unforgettable personal stories, and her savvy business prowess. Together we can stop rape by ensuring everyone knows when they have sexual consent and when they do not. Aug 22, 2016 basically it boils down tea pun intended to if someone doesnt want a cup of tea or is unable to drink a cup of tea, then dont force them to have the cup of tea. Video must have information displayed below video, with a live link to original. The independent consent is as simple as a cup of tea. No matter what youre looking for or where you are in the world, our global marketplace of sellers can help you find unique and affordable options. The video uses the power of metaphor to clarify the idea of sexual consent. Theres also a popular video produced in 2015 that uses a cup of tea as an analogy. A homeless woman named eleanor is taken home for a cup of tea by a flighty woman named rosemary. Nov 06, 2015 this video shows why consent should never be confusing. You could watch it together, or send it to your teen to watch on their own. Its also a simple yet effective way to explain a complex and controversial concept.
The video, an internet sensation created by brian and emmeline may, probes the issue of consent by equating it to offering someone a cup of tea. Welcome to cup of tea with that book please, a blog dedicated to books. This video explains sexual consent in the simplest way possible. I havent had the chance to full explore your blog yet and see if you might like books like mine but. Also i think consent should be implied unless either party is in a situation in which they cannot implicitly or explicitly withhold consent. I like this sort of novel for lengthy plane flightsfrothy, romantic and not very deep. An animated video using the metaphor of offering tea is being circulated far and wide to clear the air on sexual consent once and for all. And on that note, i am going to make myself a cup of tea. The very british video helping americans understand sexual consent. We always talk about summer beach reads but this book could also be a longplaneride read. Rosemary, the protagonist, is caught up in a fantasy of helping others, but it doesnt go as planned. But a cup of tea was barely worth the ninetynine cents.
Ok, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea, and they said yes, but in the time it took you to boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk they are now unconscious. Students will learn what sexual consent is that it is as simple as asking someone if they want a cup of tea and how to know if they have consent or dont have consent. Obviously a quick read, this book is a beautifully written love tragedy that takes place during wwi. This video has been doing the social media rounds for a while, and uses the analogy of a cup of tea. A cup of tea adds a touch of classand a love triangleto the classic theme of parallel lives and their accidental crossing. And if they say no thank you, then dont make them tea. Life by the cup is a worldchanging, unique, and beautifully written book that will benefit every aspect of the readers life. If youre still struggling with consent just imagine instead of initiating sex youre making them a cup of tea. In tea consent, the team behind the video explains sexual consent by using the analogy of making a cup of tea for someone. Tea and consent video this video brilliantly explains sexual consent with a simple cup of tea analogy. My health teacher showed us this video and everyone burst out laughing when the guy said oh my god fuck yes i would fucking love a cup of. Mar 11, 2015 the best analogy for sexual consent sexual consent should be a pretty straightforward concept sadly, its still a topic of debate. Any time of day, any place, any situation and the odds are good that i have my nose stuck in a book. Dec 06, 2019 in tea consent, the team behind the video explains sexual consent by using the analogy of making a cup of tea for someone.
New york city, in the uncertain days of world war i, is home to rosemary fells, who is the sort of woman with the time to strike stunning poses and rearrange her curls. A cup of tea is a modernist style short story written by katherine mansfield in 1922. Of course, again, this tea example is a visual and audio replacement for sex. Character c is indecisive with wanting tea, so d leaves tea on desk 7. If youre still struggling with consent, just imagine instead of initiating sex, youre making them a cup of tea. However, before i go deeper into explaining why i find this analogy useful and show you the video, i would like to say something about sexual assault itself. Eleanor smith, whom rosemary finds under a street lamp, miserable and shivering, is certainly not. Autoplay when autoplay is enabled, a suggested video will automatically play next. Jan 09, 2020 this is from the creator of the wonderful tea guide to consent meme, where consent to sex is made much easier to understand by thinking of it as offering a cup of tea instead. This is a brilliant allegory to help explain the sometimes awkward topic of consent. This video explains sexual consent in the simplest way.
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